he stopped giving me attention

at the same time, I am wondering why should i wait for him to initiate, why not agree that i pay half of the dinner since i am an independent woman who believes in equality. But he would rather break up than try to understand what makes me happy and make an effort. Maybe I just need to not be so dependent and work on myself. WORKS BUT DOES NOTHING ELSE. We just hang out in my house. It breaks my heart not talking to him and hearing about his day but I know this was for the best. Well, a few weeks have gone by and the love languages and arguing and overall communication has been better. Required fields are marked *. Im still in high school. I reslect to my culture. I used to brag up the fact that he was one of those guys who would actually reply to all of a lengthy message so to speak but lately he ignores a lot of whats said as if he just doesnt care. He said he loved me pretty much from the beginning, but never made an effort to see me or make plans unless I suggested it. He cant see his daughter now because his crazy ex wife wont let him. Heres what to do: write down the three strongest emotions you feel about your boyfriends lack of effort in your relationship. for example, yesterday, he gave me a box of chocolates only because his mom made him and i usually have to make the first moves, even if its something simple as reaching out to hold hands. He just doesnt care. I just dont know what to do. This might not apply to all guys. Ladies lay back and observe. Hes doing it deliberately. We have been talking for almost a month. Hes always been so affectionate towards me, always wanted us to be happy so we got together. This guy isnt my boyfriend but we met in a way that would almost seen like fate. Ignoring a man based on false projections often has drastic results. He said he would change, but he said that before. So accept that it will be hard, cry about it for a week or two and try to move on with your life and realize that you deserved so much better then that pos. Tonight was my last straw.. He has lost interest in everything. He wont text me all day till I text him. Yet never once hes let me in. Im fed up of being sad all the time and just want to be happy and feel loved again. We have an 18 year age gap. We fight a lot almost every week because my needs are not met. He feels sex is for marriage. If I dont ask him are we seeing each other today? I have no friends no interest in men, I cant even stand it when strangers try to talk to me. The sex? The difference in mine is that he does apologies very often but never changesand I cant keep up anymore, I am simply not happy and not sure what do to do with that, I even doubting myself If I am not the one who is the wrong person. I know love makes me blind, could anyone tell me what I have been missing in this relationship please? Is Your Boyfriend's Mother Ruining Your Relationship? He is the problem. Then he complains when I dont cook dinner after working 10 hours a day, I work four-10 hour days, and says all I know how to cook is chicken, which Im a great cook, he is just too lazy to do anything what so ever. No romantic dates (I know a walk in a park can be romantic but not when thats all you ever do together), no random little surprises from his side, no dinners etc. Recently I even paid half of his carnote because he didnt have the money until next week & I couldnt get my hair or nails done. Here, youll find several questions and tips to help you evaluate your relationship and make a good decision about your boyfriend. We cuddled and played video games until 5 am and they took me home. Landis Bejar is a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor and the founder of AisleTalk: Consultation & Therapy. My boyfriend and I started with a lot of stress in our relationship. I dont always have it my way though because hes dealing with personal problems that have stretched for months. Our communication is pretty bad now. its just do not putting attention at all. When a partner is heavily distracted by other commitments, tasks, stress, and anxiety, they may find it too challenging to redirect their attentionand they may even be so wrapped up that your needs don't even register. Im Im confused and at this point I almost miss being just friends because then he would try harder. A lot of times my boyfriend has realised he did it on purpose to hurt and he regrets his words right after. Maybe hes coping with financial problems in his professional or personal life, or grieving the los of someone he loves. im like nvr part of his schedule. I am an emotional person and I tend to cry. Its really hard to get him to change his habits. Of course you want him to make an effort to wine and dine And to be fair to him around a year in he got the message and now regularly checks in and asks to meet up. He has some really great qualities and some sh**y ones. I said ok. This is good advice thanks, Ive been dating my boyfriend for six months now and its been a really hard couple of months for us. so I do have to take that into account, and when his parents go away for the summer its wayyyy easier to spend more time with him, he becomes so laid back. Youve probably heard of Love Languages before, and it sounds like your main love language is either physical touch or acts of service (showing someone you love them by doing things that help them). Carve out time for conversation, get in tune with their needs, stop avoiding difficult chats, empathize with what they say, and listen to how they say it. He gets angry and its caused a lot of fights lately. But there were also a couple of red flags like he wouldnt make concrete plans with me ahead of time, he would just tell me Saturday afternoon that he was ready for me to come over if I wanted. He sounds willing to work on your relationship, be thankful for that. Its too much. He goes out at night with his friends when his daughter is staying with him, but uses her presence as a reason not to spend time with me, yet he is happy to do Thanksgiving together. Does not show any effort at all, but claims to love me so much. im in the same boat as you and it really sucks. He says he loves but i dont really see it in actions you know. I love drinking with him and having a laugh but he doesnt seem to feel the same. Date. He told me he loved me within weeks of us meeting. Ive had a talk with him a few times that I feel like his mom, Im always cleaning and cooking and have to tell him what needs to be done. Everything is done ON PURPOSE to stick a fork in his eye like youre not that important, sorry. Right now I want to clear things out and make this the last time we talk about this, because in the last month I told him many times that I felt like he made no time for me and was making more effort to spend time with his friends than with me, and he doesnt even answers my texts. I set the bar really, really low. I know how hard it is to let go, but I think you have to. Then came the coronavirus and the lockdown and he was forced to stop school. And when I ask him what hes been doing that he cant call me, he gives me horrible excuses. Im in a similar situation. It is too immature an attitude for a 56 year old intelligent man. My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up recently, but within a few days, he decided he wanted to get back together to work things out. And i couldnt forget it. We have a beautiful home and are dog and cat owners. I guess what im really confused about is, Is he really just being comfortable or is he thinking that i would never leave him ( he knows) so it dosent matter how he treats me or how much effort he puts in? After that we were so in love and we talked all the time everyday. It became so bad that I almost broke up with him. Please tell me whatbi should do. As well BALANCE is a VERY hard thing for men I have learned. He was telling me about his plan for tomorrow and I asked about when we are supposed to go out, he acted annoyed and commented I knew you would be worried about that really? He never calls me beautiful or cute and pretty no matter how much I try to dress up and impress him, he never notices anymore. Please advice me on this. Hes never really posted pictures of us on social media and hes been very non intimate. but when you asked him he keep saying i dont hate you i hate your attitude sometimes. But I clearly have seen enough examples of the ones who simply stops caring when they are sure that we will be theirs and we will always care about them no matter what. If your partner doesn't pay attention to you, it could come down to one of the six signs below. He is a nice guy as a whole but its the fact he went out of his way for me a handful of times that gave me a little hope in this First off I pulled back without warning. When i pull back abit, i notice it is when he makes an effort. Hes been consistent so far. Clearly I am not a priority and I deserve better so I think it is time to move on. It makes me jealous he could spend time playing games with her not me. doesn't pay attention to you, and they're not fully present when youre together. Im a mum of one and I feel if we move in he will leave it all to me. It could be that your partner is losing interest and doesnt know how to communicate that with you," says marriage and family therapist Lynsie Seely. Maybe he was tired or stressed out, maybe the honeymoon stage was simply over. Like, Ive planned 90% of our dates. Especially since at the beginning thats when you have your honeymoon stage with the feeling of butterflies and the sweet words. He does not even get up in the morning and brush his teeth, put on deodorant ,etc. Not material things, but being romantic on special occasions. I met other guys got into relationships but didnt work. Getting older I desired to go on dates more and more. The worst thing you can do is become a desperate, emotionally suffocating girlfriend who is scared to lose her boyfriend. I gave him the benefit of the doubt too many times. I have been doing some self-evaluation to determine the role I played in the relationship. I really love him and care for him. Actually they havnt shared any sexual pictures or that was not very sexual conversation. Then, all of the sudden the bottom drops out and he is unresponsive. He was all amazing.. first few months showered me with flowers and gifts then slowly I started to see his true colours. Reading thru the comments solidifies my opinion that any woman who actually feels, attempts to comprehend said feelings, does her due diligence to ensure consideration for any other human being that may be identified as part of her analysis, and is able to attempt to reconcile the differences that led her to see things she could have done better is going to accept that her analysis as follows: She will always be in confused state of mind until she accepts that he doesnt have to put in effort to do or say anything for her to feel he loves her because like all children do, the man-child she wants so badly messed up, smashed thru her boundaries he forgot the moment he sw her lips stop movinb, blamed her for being so stupid n try to set boundaries HAHA,and eventually his man-child tantrum scores him the win! Just stay silent. Recently we spoke after time a part and he said hed really change. I tried discussing that with him, he told me if he was to mess up he would want someone to correct him. Rather than jumping to conclusions, have a conversation with your partner and ask them what's been on their mind and the reasons for their apparent loss of interest. I tried to get my best friend to take me (I cant drive) to his sisters baby shower so i could see him but i found out she no longer was friends with him and she hated that we were dating and regretted getting us together. We were together for three years. Am I a horrible girlfriend for feeling this way? But I have stopped always responding to him quickly and am now just being courteous but not engaging beyond that, and he gets concerned and starts asking whats wrong, am i mad at him, etc. Often the dog doesnt get walked for a few hours in the morning because I have to get myself and the kids ready before I can take the dog out when really he could just get up and do it.He never wants to come on walks with us. he said hell give me more time but nothing ever changes. Crazy! Ill leave him alone. If his texts arent super time-sensitive, then its okay to Stay fabulous sis!? I have tried so many times to let the relationship go and have broken up with him, but he does not want to let me go. Back as a baby, he said the vet said not to let her sleep or have that on for a while because she is a labradoodle and it makes their hair very knotty and bad for their skin. I have tried these and it really made me respect and love myself way more than I used to do over past. My boyfriend is a foreigner and a Muslim while I am a Catholic Christian. It hurts, but Ive got to learn to let go. So many thoughts, so many scenarios. Which I practically felt alone and excited to do things by myself. And boom..you would be able to leave him to be single and be open for someone whod treat you just the way you deserve. No matter how much you wish your boyfriend was making more of an effort in your relationship, you have to remember that theres nothing you can do to change him. We talk on the phone usually three times a day. 7 Signs You Can Trust Your Boyfriend After He Cheated, 7 Ways to Convince Your Ex to Give You a Second Chance, When the Man You Love is Marrying Someone Else, When Your Ex Starts a New Relationship: 3 Ways Through the Pain, 7 Signs You Arent Ready for a Relationship, Emotionally Detaching From Someone You Love. He studies in a university and was about to graduate when the lockdown began. im still inlove with him up to now but i feel so tired understanding him and ive been unhappy throughtout the relationship. He dresses professionally. He is trying to save the world on his own. That doesnt only mean that hes If I try to go out of the way to show gratitude, he insists I dont care. In order for your partner to communicate, share ideas, and feel close to you, you must reciprocate their attention; a healthy relationship isn't a one-way street. There is a lot more to it that Im frustrated about, and recently Ive become I guess depressed about everything in general and find myself thinking about how it used to be and what I miss the most and to be honest all that ends up happening is me ending up crying, falling asleep and it starts all over again. That will show me he doesnt plan on committing for the long haul. I found a way thomy school computer so yeah. I didnt get to ask him for his number or anything so I only had his name. he has a 9-5 job and all he ever wanna do is go home and game after and its not that i mind but is it rlly hard to jst have dinner w me for once? The day before yesterday he texted me saying hes been feeling unwell and didnt get much sleep. he would nvr go out of his way to do anything for me now and it makes me wonder why because what am i lacking? Since a month or so these fights are causing me to have panic attacks and he doesnt care when tell him how much it affects me. I dont know what to do. you are still young and you should take this time to learn about yourself and then find the right man that will want a future with you. Im always the one asking him to do something, Im always planning my work schedules around his and swapping shifts etc I just feel like its so one sided sometimes. Which I know I do and Ive thought about sooooo much, but my problem is is that I actually cant imagine my life without him, hes been in it so deeply since we were 13/14 and I love him so much. They just seems like some eords. I think him doing that even though you have said you arent okay with it is extremely disrespectful and shows he doesnt care about your feelings. I dont know why he got back with me when he cant even put effort. The way he acted after you said you need a romantic date, even if you said it while in tears or upset, is absolutely unacceptable. If your S.O. September came around. Part of me struggles with feeling like this relationship is way way past it expiration date and needs to be taken out back and put out of its misery but at the same time and I just struggling with what is a natural and normal transition into a long-term relationship? The fact that you can recognize how unhealthy his argument style is, but he cant, means youre a mismatch. He said hes tired or too busy. Write in your journal or diary, or share in the comments section below. I truely love him i said i ll forgive. The point Im trying to make is, if you settle for mistreatment and excuses for why its ok, youll only end up resentful and unable to trust anyone again. Hes now working at a new job since Jan and its great! The crazy thing about all this is that even tho Im the one craving attention and love and effort in the relationship, he actually relies on me a lot. He always said that its his first relationship and he doesnt know how to behave like a boyfriend. We had the break up talk several times a day, and at the end of it, it was one of the other begging to stay together because they believed we could fix it. But I have been through more than enough pain and tough times for my age and I really wanted to be of help because I can imagine what you must be going through. time and time again i have told him why i was upset, what he could do to make the situation better and everything in between, yet he still does nothing. Unlike me, hes understanding and loyal (my family loves him) but his situation is really difficult but im getting tired of being the only one that tries to make this work by always initiating stuff. There are sometimes I try to talk to him about my day, and he is listening but he doesnt engage or seem interested. Me and him didnt talk much because my mom found out more about my bf and i also couldnt sneak ipads anymore. I am very confused and angry at myself because I know he wasnt like that in his previous relationship endeavors. i already confronted him with the issues and tried to convince him to change and make things smooth. That same night, we agreed to date. Dont settle for this. I feel like a roommate or guest or kept woman instead of woman he loves. Your boyfriend is a narcissist. Thats sad. We just dont talk the same way that we used to. You name it he does it. I envisioned a life time ahead of feeling let down by this person. God bless! I have trust issues as well. Should I quit or continue with the relationship? I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 months now. I asked him a couple of times why he doesnt put any effort and he just told me since we live together I shouldnt have to and I get that point but it doesnt mean just completely give up on putting a effort into the relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year now and I feel like lately he doesnt make any effort to spend time with me. Weve been together for 5 years. I have been with my bf for 5 years. But refuses to do that for me. He stays at my house an wont clean a dish or pick up his trash off my floor. In the first year of the relationship it was really good and he made an effort to be with me, and I felt like he really loved me. This became such an issue that, we fight basically every days I do everything to make his life easier. Damn this just made me cry because this is exactly what Im going through rn. He only got me a childrens bear . Then later said someone was making it. It just seems like a cliche movie begining or something. Is it bad that I miss being just friends with him?. I feel angry and resentful that going to school took him away from me while he was basically unavailable and busy. feels as though what they say doesn't matter (and they've stopped talking altogether), then look within. We have had problems in the past about him flirting with girls on social media but never that Ive known for him to actually meet someone and get their number and asking her out. I am learning. When I first met him I didnt think I needed a relationship but now especially in this lockdown I feel a little empty and alone. he said he had been trying to email me but i dont rlly believe it I never got anything. she tells him SHE is sorry. So Im telling myself to just treat him like an acquaintance and move on with my life, but still find myself getting triggered on the daily by this baffling behavior. Its almost like when he couldnt have me he would try hard and now he has me and he doesnt have to put in anymore effort. It can make you feel insecure like theres something wrong with you. I was the one initiating our relationship and I feel like he thinks just being there is enough for me. I feel so let down all the time when I really am not asking for much. Maybe he will brush his teeth at lunchtime but often he just smells like armpits and looks like a scruff and then wants to come to our clean bed that way. Not only that sexual favors have been one sided for a long time now. I dont want to talk about marriage or kids or the future. He snaps at me more now that we live together and anytime I try to bring up my sensitive feelings they are dismissed as drama he cant handle. Each weekend he has been helping his DJ friend ( his BFF), or going out with best buddies. I asked him if he could pick me up some tea from the shop as I was unwell. should i stay or let go? Web206 views, 11 likes, 2 loves, 2 comments, 2 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Andr Lima - EFT: O PODER DO PERDO. Should I stay? Im feeling pained and upset with myself the concessions Ive made and feeling as though theres no room for compromise. work game sleep. He is the type of person who has to be in control of everything, and I feel like when I suggest things for us to do together he shuts me down, but if any of his friends suggest the same thing he is game. Its frustrating because since he wont do anything around the house, I have to pick up the extra work because I dont want our house to look or smell like a garbage can. Anyways, I eventually moved in with him and things were good. I would get so frustrated with him because I really was not asking for much, just a phone call to check on your girlfriend surely is not asking for much. When we girls become super loyal and keep pouring all the love in the world into our boyfriends life, they often take us for granted and makes barely any effort in the relationship to make us happy let alone pursue. For a while there I was wondering if he was a narcissist, player or just using me. His temper and his childish attitude and how he has to be right all the time. Sometimes I felt that he was mad at me, he would say that I was a show off or that I always took things too seriously. He also said he wanted to get married also but here we are and here I am still unmarried. His complaint is that no matter what he does is never enough and that I dont contribution anything. He makes comments like some of us work for a living which is one of his huge baggage in life- the fact that hes a greedy mother $#_&@ and chose to be a workaholic and have no life even in his 20s so he expects everyone else to do the same. Its easy for him to say he crashed at a friends, but let him get over the guilt or offers an explanation before he comes back. Dont let him have it easy. Even when you are depressed you can do little things, especially if its for someone you love. Today I found out that hes planning a trip to Rhode Island to hang out with his cohort in May and has even already booked the hotel yet hes not said a word to me. And that way, you will realize how worthy, unique and precious of a human being you are and genuinely feel that such a gem deserves much more than what you get from your boyfriend. He calls me stupid n crazy. to tell you honestly, im the one who makes effort for us to be together because he lives far away from me and i understand his conditon that he cant travel far.. im not a demanding partner all i want is for him to make little efforts to make me feel special and loved. Anyways, he has told me before that he plans to make me his girlfriend, we have great conversations, hes very flirty but the problem is he doesnt text me often or try to call or set up a date. Would you be better off without him? I recently had to end it with my bf of two years . maybe its because im his first gf and he doesnt know exactly how to treat one, but it still makes me sad to think that he might not love me that much. Thats it.. theres nothing more than that. I feel sad when I see these things and feel left unheard and unseen by my so-called partner. I think the best thing to do would be to withdraw and give him space. We just never did anything like that alone. (this actually backfired) and caused huge tension and we nearly broke up several times, but when i tried to give him more space to understand his situation, my worst fears came true because we started talking less and less. I just feel like that is so little reassurance for what would be 7 years together, that we would have the possibility to then just maybe live together. Over the past 2 months something changed. LOL. I sometimes think my expectations are too high. Do not sound attacking or desperate. If you ever need a friend dont hesitate to reach out. Please help? Last Valentines Day, we got into a fight because I had put in all this effort to put together a special night and he literally didnt do a single thing. He is properly dressed and looks fine, just too add. Girl, you need to get out of that relationship now! Like, if they arent happy anymore, why not tell us so we can move on? Unless he drank to much then he was argumentative and yucky. 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